And everyone else stop busting a nut just because a girl posted her picture on here, it's like you all automatically find any girl on here to be the hottest thing ever.
All I'm saying is people here are easily impressed, and it's pathetic.
Then why do you stick around, other than to flaunt your supposed superior maturity?
Also, ~4 people != "you all".
I was obviously talking about the people that had done what I said, not the entire forum. And the reason I stick around is more or less because of habit, but as you can see I don't post here that frequently anymore.
Not to be rude, because yeah she might be attractive if we saw a real photograph of her and not an angles shot focusing only on her breasts or she may not be, but in either case there's no reason to sit here and tell her how hot she is. Does anybody here actually think that, in real life, going up to a woman and telling her how attractive she is and how sexy she is is going to make her like you? No she's going to see you as some pussy who can't control your attraction, and she'll know she has control over you.
This is to every guy here (but mainly for Newby since he's the only person here who I actually care about getting laid) and you can take or leave this advice -- it doesn't affect me -- but I'd suggest that somebody at least try it. Next time you're talking to a girl that you like, don't show her that you're nervous or that you're not in control. Don't ask her what she wants, just do it. Lead. Show her that you're in control of yourself and of the situation. If you want to go somewhere else at a party or something, take her hand and lead her there. Too many guys put women on a pedestal even if she doesn't deserve it (as we're seeing in this thread.) Remind her that she doesn't deserve it, tease her, make fun of her, whatever. Don't fall into her traps where she trys to maintain dominance.
I'll give you an example...there was this girl on Thursday night that I started talking to. The first time we kissed, I only let her get two kisses then I lead her back over to where everyone else was. I did this throughout the night, to the point where we were playing pool and she pulled me down on top of her on the pool table. I teased her again telling her how she was being too forward, but really this just shows that the anticipation I had created by not kissing her whenever she wanted just made her more turned on. This is the same girl that throughout the night kept telling me how much of an asshole I was, and who kept flirtatiously hitting me whenever I'd make fun of her. Most girls love it because they secretly don't want to be in control, they want the guy to be. This girl even came out and said that some of the stuff I'd said to her, and especially the fact that I was able to control myself and make her wait to kiss me and stuff was "hot" and something no guy had ever done with her before. She said I was the first guy to ever stand up to her.
The girls here might post saying how wrong I am, but who cares I know this is what works. The less interested you appear to be in her, the more interested she'll be in you. Telling a girl how sexy you think she is isn't going to get you anywhere.
Edit: Before I get bitched out, of course there are exceptions and there are girls who will drop their panties just because you gave them a compliment. But these girls are probably girls that are either sluts, or have low self-esteem and need approval, or both.
Edit 2: In a nutshell basically everything I just said equates to confidence, that's really the end all be all. Remember that you're living your life for you, not for some girl. If you get shot down, it happens...there's always another night and another girl. Last night I was dancing with three girls at the same time, I don't remember what happened but for whatever reason this stopped and I didn't dance with them again...later I asked the hottest one if she wanted to dance more and she said no. I mean that sucks, but it doesn't matter that much...after the party ended I went to sleep. No big deal.
