As far as getting to know the people I don't know, I could do that
The people that know me were from xL, shoulda cleared that up a bit ago ^_^
Send proof of femaleness to all members that do not know you and you'll be in within the week.
I don't really feel the need to prove myself for what gender I am, and it shouldn't be considered on my gender if I get in or not (nor do I want it to be). I'm content with the "getting to know the people better" bit, since that's really the most logical and fair output I've seen.