what to do if...

[SNiFFeR]

Personally, I wouldn't go see her in person I would just continue on with the random IM's maybe phone calls here and there but don't go out of your way man you don't want to seem desperate or anything. If she really does have feelings for you and is playing games like an idiot let her play her game and just sit back and watch her come to you. If she doesn't have feelings for you, she most likely won't come back. Play the same stupid game they are and pretend like you haven't the slightest clue about what's going on. Just my two cents.

Drunk conversations > sober conversations.

[c0Ld]

Personally, I wouldn't go see her in person I would just continue on with the random IM's

Me too, but mainly because I have problems talking to anyone I find even mildly attractive. In reality, you probably should go talk to her.

[abc]

Seeing her is definitely the right approach... chances are I'm going to be nicer in person that over AIM or an e-mail or even the phone.. So if you want to know what she's really feeling see her in person you'll get a feel of if she's sincere..etc by her facial expressions.

[MyndFyre]

Personally, I wouldn't go see her in person I would just continue on with the random IM's

Me too, but mainly because I have problems talking to anyone I find even mildly attractive. In reality, you probably should go talk to her.

You both fail.  Cue up this sound and play it for yourselves.

[Kaleeko]

Try to talk to her in person. An email or letter can help, but it can also be a hinderance... Sometimes it makes meeting in person afterwards a little awkward, even if it breaks the ice for you. It's best to just talk, whether it's on the phone or in person -- but in face-to-face is always your best bet. Ensures you see her facial expressions as you talk through things, which can be really important when talking about serious stuff.

Good luck!

[warz]

wow, lots of replies. well, i was drunk last night and just thinking about it. i havent tried talking to her for awhile. i just moved on, really, but every time i see her friends and they talk about her talking about me that gets me thinking again.

im not going to talk to her in person, or call her, or anything. the way i've been looking at it is if we run into each other one day randomly, and hang out, and things are different after that then who knows... but im not really holding my breath.

[while1]

warz, you're such a tease.

[warz]

ppshhhhyaaaaaaah

[Kaleeko]

Wussy.

Just kidding. Sort of.

[SNiFFeR]

warz bro stop being a pussy and fuck that shit up dawg.

[Warrior]

This thread is gold.

[Krazed]

Seriously. I read like three responses and you guys REALLY suggested e-mail.... Personally, invite her out to dinner,  maybe a movie, or maybe just invite her to come get fucking trashed.

[truste1]

Seriously. I read like three responses and you guys REALLY suggested e-mail.... Personally, invite her out to dinner,  maybe a movie, or maybe just invite her to come get fucking trashed.

That's when the true feelings come out. Drunken words are sober thoughts.