This forum is EXTREMELY hostel. Loving Mom and Dads work long, hard hours and are smart caring people, but their children are just fighting everything they have and take for granted. Alcohol is an extremely common drug and each family has their own moral and tolerant level. It doesn't make them bad parents, but believe it or not it isn't uncommon to find alcohol tolerance within family systems...But there is lines to draw of course, tolerance only goes so far. My family also does not buy alcohol in mass anymore, only when they want to consume it..This is so I don't drink any alcohol.
But in certain circumstances, within private parties where alcohol is consumed by minors...It's OK to have some alcohol.
How ever minors of all social standards drink alcohol at parties or where ever they get it.. So it doesn't matter. Saying I'm fucked up isn't the issue here, alcohol doesn't help ANY one, and I am not "fucked up" thanks, I am actually doing pretty well, and I party and have fun, I enjoy being 19 and young and mine as well live it up a bit before i'm old and useless.