A remote control trojan would however, because it's obviously sending out packets, if you turn off anything else that is needs to connect to the internet to work, you can easily find out. Now if you'd answer my AIMs that would be great.
It's not "remote control trojan", the class of trojans is named "Remote Access Trojan", or "RAT".
I don't understand what you mean by the next sentence. I know of very few trojans or viruses (yes, viruses, virii isn't a proper word) that turn off your internet connection since they're usually trying to stay hidden.
When I got your message you were offline so I closed the Window. Plus, I haven't answered anybody this morning, I've spent all morning going to the store, eating breakfast, fixing my aunt's computer, helping my mom paint a room, and helping my stepdad clean the swimming pool. I'm not exactly sitting here waiting for messages.
You also never answer any other message I send you.
And, for the remote access trojan thing, it's very easy to tell, as seen in the link below.
http://screend-productions.net/packsk.gifIf you run a packet sniffer throughout the night, with every other program that needs to connect/has the ability to connect to the internet to work (i.e. Steam, AIM, MSN, Firefox, whatever), you can tell if you do have something sending out information about your computer on a regular basis, because chances are it's going to do it atleast once every so and so number of hours, and if it wants to send anything, there's going to be another IP involved, which a good packet sniffer will pick up. (Note: I never said ever it'll get rid of the trojan (remote access, don't get technical on this iago) it'll just give you some way of knowing you have one.)