From me, starting out on a RP server (Feathermoon), then moving to a pvp server (Aegwynn), I would have to say I was much more intent on hitting 60 on Aegwynn then Feathermoon (hence why I was powerleveled 24-40), pvp servers in my opinion are more down to earth. This is how it goes:
The Barrens - Shit hole of Horde, you turn off you chat for the levels you're here (assuming you play on Horde), and you'll enjoy the rest of the game, and possibly even the levels in Barrens.
Westfall - ...Ugh, you don't want to be anywhere near Westfall, this place is the most annoying spot to deal with. (Alliance, duh)
Other then that, if you just grind your whole way to 60, the game is actually very enjoyable. I know it doesn't seem like it, but you kind of go into a trance and just day dream the whole time you do it, keep in mind also gaining more exp then if you were questing. I've found the perfect areas to level for Alliance and Horde to level 50 so far. (I don't know 50-60 due to I had met up with a pvp addicted team and that was how we leveled, strictly from pvp, so eh.)
But finally, this is the thing, Sidoh, those people weren't "pvpers", they were trying to combine pvp chat with RP chat, which obviously gives you a handful of idiot. If it had been a pvp server it would have been this; "Damn, a rank 14, I bet everyone's suking his dick for that. Lets go gank some lowbies in our pink dresses, true pimp style."
Whereas when you have people like them trying to mix it with roleplaying, you get that... type of language. The thing is, you don't notice because you're around people RPing all the time, regaurdless of wether or not you associate with them, they're doing it. Then when someone RP's a little differently you notice and get defensive when we pvpers say that's what happens when you play on a RP server, here's the thing, wether they're "RPing the right way" or not, it only happens on RP servers, you're not in a position to call them idiots due to the fact that you play on the server.