Well yea the last part was more or so a joke. I have a friend who's *really* fat and gets a SHITLOAD of girls (He wear shirts saying Fat Joe (His name is Joe)) and he makes a joke out of it. But yea, a joke.
Anyhow I really can't stand people who know they're doing something wrong then punk out. If you don't have the heart then you don't have the heart, don't try to drag the brave ones with you.