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[rabbit]

Eat, sleep, and stop throwing up?  Go abstinent for a while.

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[Warrior]

Don't talk to her for a few days.
Girls need time to think, she'll eventually recontact you or if not you can do it after a day or two.

Keep in mind that not talking to her is not the same as ignoring, you can reply to her if she engages in conversation with you. It's crucial that you let the ball be in her court for those first 48-72 hours of the breakup.

The logical step during this time is to do a self evaluation: What happened to cause the break up? What lengths are you willing to go for her? What kind of chance do you think you have?

Using this information, you should be ready to talk to her once the first few days are up and she's calmer.
You can split up the task into multiple sections:

For instance, girls enjoy reminiscing on greater times so you can do your best to bring up old memories. Be sure not to sound too sappy, strive to remain as confident as ever.

To elaborate on this, pity will get you nowhere. If you show her you're hurt, the ball will be in her court for longer than you're going to want. You eventually want to control the conversations, and how they end. The best thing to do with a girl is slowly ramp up the conversation and then finish it with one hard hitting question for her to sit on for that night.

Do this for a few days, then talk to me.

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[CrAz3D]

Definitely try not to initiate talking to her, let her talk to you.

Women are senseless, they do things and say things that all contradict themselves. 

Also, stay as busy as you possibly can, preferably with real friends (not online)

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[Newby]

Also, stay as busy as you possibly can, preferably with real friends (not online)

Mix the two. Individually there's still vacant time periods where your mind will most likely wander to a sad lonely place.

[CrAz3D]

Well, yeah ... when not with friends you still need to do SOMETHING.

[Krazed]

Get a hobby. I'm not gonna sit here and tell you she'll come running back, she *probably* will, but even if she doesn't it's not the end of the world. I've been through a lot of relationships (ask any of the old-school x86  :P), maybe it was time for a break or a change. If she broke up with you, then it's time for you to do some moving on. If she comes back, then I still wouldn't recommend jumping right back into the relationship. If she did it once, she'll do it again.

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[Chavo]

Plotting 'revenge' is a great way to establish a healthy relationship!  :-\

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[Chavo]

re·venge
-verb
1.   to exact punishment or expiation for a wrong on behalf of, esp. in a resentful or vindictive spirit: He revenged his murdered brother.
–noun
7.   an opportunity to retaliate or gain satisfaction.

Sounds like revenge to me bud.

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